{"id":522,"date":"2010-09-08T07:56:12","date_gmt":"2010-09-08T13:56:12","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/wendiriggens.com\/blog\/?p=522"},"modified":"2013-09-11T07:48:52","modified_gmt":"2013-09-11T13:48:52","slug":"guest-blog-hindsight-is-2020-by-margaret-moore-simple-elegance-events-and-wedding-design","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/wendiriggens.com\/blog\/guest-blog-hindsight-is-2020-by-margaret-moore-simple-elegance-events-and-wedding-design","title":{"rendered":"Guest Blog – “Hindsight is 20\/20” by Margaret Moore – Simple Elegance Events and Wedding Design"},"content":{"rendered":"

This week’s guest blogger is Margaret Moore of Simple Elegance Events and Wedding Designs in Bloomington, Illinois.<\/a><\/p>\n

I met Margaret at a seminar in Chicago in July and was quite excited to feature here on my blog!\u00a0 She and her team of professionals are a full-service wedding planning and design group, and do some beautifully amazing things!\u00a0 Be sure to check out their website at http:\/\/www.aweddingtodreamof.com<\/a>!<\/p>\n

“Hindsight is 20\/20”<\/h1>\n

By Margaret Moore<\/p>\n

I can tell you all of the things that I wish I had known before I became a wedding planner. Some things, people warned me about, but I just did not want to believe them. So now I want to share my experiences in hopes that they will make your day just a little more special.<\/p>\n

Set a Budget<\/h2>\n

The most important thing you can do is set a budget and try the best you can to stick to it.\u00a0 But a word of caution: be realistic.<\/em><\/p>\n

If you are watching David Tutera on\u00a0“My Fair Wedding” on WEtv\u00a0and want a \u201cfairytale wedding\u201d just\u00a0like the one featured in the program\u00a0for $10,000, you are going to be very disappointed.<\/p>\n

You and your fianc\u00e9 must sit down and calculate the cost.\u00a0 Here is a great site that can help you see\u00a0how to proritize your spending: Wedding Budget Planner<\/a> .\u00a0 On this site you can type in any budget amount and\u00a0the calculator\u00a0provide guidelines for\u00a0allocating your funds.\u00a0 Please understand the calculator offers suggestions\u00a0which are not hard fast rules.\u00a0 If you just have to have that $3000 gown, that is fine, just know that you will have to cut somewhere else (or have Grandma buy it for you).<\/p>\n

In my experience I have learned that there are three things not to go cheap on:<\/p>\n

1. The Photographer<\/p>\n

2. The Flowers<\/p>\n

3. The DJ<\/p>\n

The Photographer<\/strong><\/h2>\n

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You have spent countless hours planning your dream wedding and the pictures taken by your photographer will be the pictures you have for the rest of your life! When you look back on your family history, what do you look at? PICTURES! Pictures of what? A lot of times, pictures of family members WEDDINGS! You could go to Craigslist and hire someone to take pictures, but it is unlikely to find a good photographer on Craigslist, one who creates images. A good photographer is invested in his trade, which means he or she is invested in YOU! And although price is a factor, don’t just look at dollar signs, look beyond. Look at the quality of the photos.<\/p>\n

Does the style of photography appeal to you? Does your personality click with the photographers? Does the photographer understand your vision? During your consultation with the photographer, ask him or her to go through the details of the day, how the photographer goes about planning coverage, what equipment he or she plans to use, what\u00a0backup equipment he or she keeps on hand at the wedding, \u00a0what training\u00a0he or she\u00a0has, and his or her professional affiliations. You will soon understand that when you find a photographer invested in creating beautiful images, you’re getting more for your money than you think.<\/p>\n

The Flowers<\/h2>\n

\"\"<\/p>\n

Secondly, consider the\u00a0flowers.\u00a0 When you see a couple’s wedding pictures, what do you see in every picture?\u00a0 Your bouquet. Your bouquet is the wrong place to try and save money.\u00a0 Instead, save money by scaling down on the bridesmaid’s\u00a0bouquets and focus on your flowers.\u00a0 Remember, it will be a picture of you and your husband that will be hanging on your wall thirty years from now, and what will be in that picture?\u00a0 Your wedding bouquet!\u00a0\u00a0 Flowers are a living product so you have to trust your florist.\u00a0 If something goes wrong, will they be there for you?\u00a0 If an hour after receiving your Calla lilies you notice they are wilting, what will the florist do?\u00a0\u00a0 Make sure your florist has your back.<\/p>\n

The floral people we work with here at Simple Elegance Events and Wedding Design<\/a> have, if needed, redone bouquets, or upgraded bouquets if something goes wrong.\u00a0It is important to know prior to the wedding if your florist will\u00a0be there for you.\u00a0 Talk with your florist about what you want. Tell them about your dream bouquet, can you afford it?\u00a0 If not, can you substitute a more economical flower to make the bouquet more affordable,\u00a0keeping the look you want?\u00a0\u00a0 When you share the types of flowers you want with your florist, listen carefully to their advice.\u00a0Your florist has countless hours invested in knowing how flowers respond in different seasons and situations, draw upon their experience.\u00a0 Outside wedding in August and you want tulips?\u00a0\u00a0 Make sure you are comfortable with any person you with whom you work.<\/p>\n

The DJ<\/h2>\n

\"\"<\/p>\n

Third, your DJ and\/or entertainment are very important to the success of your wedding day. Your DJ can make or break the reception. Not only do they need to have a great personality and fresh ideas, they need to have a back up system. Ask the DJ about his or her experience. How many weddings have they done? What will they do if people stop dancing, can he or she motivate the crowd to return to the party? A DJ should also understand the type of music you enjoy. What type of crowd is he or she trying to entertain? Your DJ should also ask about your customs and family traditions. Knowing what is appropriate for you and your guests will make sure that everybody has a fun time during your reception. Price should not be the determining factor for finding a DJ. Quality of service and presentation should. Talk to your DJ about what he or she does. Ask him or her why they became a DJ. I will say it again, when a good DJ is invested in his or her trade, he or she will be invested in you and your wedding.<\/p>\n

Planning & Coordination<\/h2>\n

Weddings are a complicated orchestration of vendors: caterers, bakers, florists, photographers, entertainers \u2013 the list goes on. Your time is valuable and you have other commitments, whether work or personal. Thus, you may not have time to make numerous phone calls, set up appointments, and drive all over town looking for the perfect site. At Simple Elegance we have extensive knowledge of the best vendors, venues, and services to assist you in making your wedding everything you wish it to be.<\/p>\n

Whatever you choose, it is sure to be unforgettable! Wouldn\u2019t it be great if it was also stress free? With Simple Elegance Events and Wedding Designs <\/a> it can be both.<\/p>\n

Again, hindsight is 20\/20.<\/p>\n

I hope that this will give you a measure of insight so the day after your wedding you do not say, \u201cI wish we had only known.\u201d<\/p>\n

<\/p>\n

Hindsight is 20\/20. <\/span><\/span><\/h1>\n

<\/span>I can tell you all of the things that I wish I had known before I became a wedding planner. Some things, people warned me about, but I just did not want to believe them. So now I want to share my experiences in hopes that they will make your day just a little more special.\u00a0 <\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Set a Budget<\/span><\/span><\/h3>\n

<\/span><\/span><\/h4>\n

The most important thing you can do is set a budget and try the best you can to stick to it. <\/span>But a word of caution: be realistic.<\/span><\/em> <\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

<\/span>If you are watching David Tutera on\u00a0“My Fair Wedding” on WEtv\u00a0and want a \u201cfairytale wedding\u201d just\u00a0like the one featured in the program\u00a0for $10,000, you are going to be very disappointed. <\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

You and your fianc\u00e9 must sit down and calculate the cost. <\/span>Here is a great site that can help you see\u00a0how to proritize your spending: Wedding Budget Planner<\/a> . <\/span>On this site you can type in any budget amount and\u00a0the calculator\u00a0provide guidelines for\u00a0allocating your funds. <\/span>Please understand the calculator offers suggestions\u00a0which are not hard fast rules. <\/span>If you just have to have that $3000 gown, that is fine, just know that you will have to cut somewhere else (or have Grandma buy it for you). <\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

<\/a><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

In my experience I have learned that there are three things not to go cheap on:<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

1. The Photographer<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

2. The Flowers<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

3. The DJ<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

The Photographer<\/span><\/span><\/h3>\n

<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

You have spent countless hours planning your dream wedding and the pictures taken by your photographer will be the pictures you have for the rest of your life! When you look back on your family history, what do you look at? PICTURES! Pictures of what? A lot of times, pictures of family members WEDDINGS! You could go to Craigslist and hire someone to take pictures, but it is unlikely to find a good photographer on Craigslist, one who creates images. A good photographer is invested in his trade, which means he or she is invested in YOU! And although price is a factor, don’t just look at dollar signs, look beyond. Look at the quality of the photos. <\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Does the style of photography appeal to you? Does your personality click with the photographers? Does the photographer understand your vision? During your consultation with the photographer, ask him or her to go through the details of the day, how the photographer goes about planning coverage, what equipment he or she plans to use, what\u00a0backup equipment he or she keeps on hand at the wedding, \u00a0what training\u00a0he or she\u00a0has, and his or her professional affiliations. You will soon understand that when you find a photographer invested in creating beautiful images, you’re getting more for your money than you think.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

The Flowers<\/span><\/span><\/h3>\n

<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Secondly, consider the\u00a0flowers. <\/span>When you see a couple’s wedding pictures, what do you see in every picture? <\/span>Your bouquet. Your bouquet is the wrong place to try and save money. <\/span>Instead, save money by scaling down on the bridesmaid’s\u00a0bouquets and focus on your flowers. <\/span>Remember, it will be a picture of you and your husband that will be hanging on your wall thirty years from now, and what will be in that picture? <\/span>Your wedding bouquet! <\/span>Flowers are a living product so you have to trust your florist. <\/span>If something goes wrong, will they be there for you? <\/span>If an hour after receiving your Calla lilies you notice they are wilting, what will the florist do? <\/span>Make sure your florist has your back. <\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

<\/span>The floral people we work with here at Simple Elegance Events and Wedding Design<\/a> have, if needed, redone bouquets, or upgraded bouquets if something goes wrong.\u00a0It is important to know prior to the wedding if your florist will\u00a0be there for you. <\/span>Talk with your florist about what you want. Tell them about your dream bouquet, can you afford it? <\/span>If not, can you substitute a more economical flower to make the bouquet more affordable,\u00a0keeping the look you want? <\/span>When you share the types of flowers you want with your florist, listen carefully to their advice.\u00a0Your florist has countless hours invested in knowing how flowers respond in different seasons and situations, draw upon their experience. <\/span>Outside wedding in August and you want tulips??? <\/span>Make sure you are comfortable with any person you with whom you work.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

The DJ<\/span><\/span><\/h3>\n

<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Third, your DJ and\/or entertainment are very important to the success of your wedding day. Your DJ can make or break the reception. Not only do they need to have a great personality and fresh ideas, they need to have a back up system. Ask the DJ about his or her experience. How many weddings have they done? What will they do if people stop dancing, can he or she motivate the crowd to return to the party? A DJ should also understand the type of music you enjoy. What type of crowd is he or she trying to entertain? Your DJ should also ask about your customs and family traditions. Knowing what is appropriate for you and your guests will make sure that everybody has a fun time during your reception. Price should not be the determining factor for finding a DJ. Quality of service and presentation should. Talk to your DJ about what he or she does. Ask him or her why they became a DJ. I will say it again, when a good DJ is invested in his or her trade, he or she will be invested in you and your wedding.<\/span><\/p>\n

<\/span><\/p>\n

Planning & Coordination<\/span><\/h4>\n

<\/span><\/p>\n

Weddings are a complicated orchestration of vendors: caterers, bakers, florists, photographers, entertainers \u2013 the list goes on. Your time is valuable and you have other commitments, whether work or personal. Thus, you may not have time to make numerous phone calls, set up appointments, and drive all over town looking for the perfect site. At Simple Elegance we have extensive knowledge of the best vendors, venues, and services to assist you in making your wedding everything you wish it to be.<\/span><\/p>\n

Whatever you choose, it is sure to be unforgettable! Wouldn\u2019t it be great if it was also stress free? With Simple Elegance Events and Wedding Designs <\/a> <\/span>it can be both.<\/span><\/p>\n

<\/span>Again, hindsight is 20\/20. <\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

<\/span>I hope that this will give you a measure of insight so the day after your wedding you do not say, \u201cI wish we had only known.\u201d <\/span><\/span>
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